How to Get a Guy to Be Your Friend

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Guys are a very difficult subject. Getting a guy to just talk to you and be your friend is just plain tough.



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    Get his attention. But don't be extremely obvious. If he says something funny, laugh at it. If he's in your school classes, try to be around him a lot. Not stalkerish, but if you need to throw away something, go around his way. If you see him in the halls, say "Hey!" and smile you're friendliest smile. It lets him know that you notice him and that he's not invisible to you.


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    If you want to be closer friends with him, invite him out to the movies with a couple
    of your close friends (be sure to invite guys too to make him more comfortable).

    Let him know what he's missing. If you have other guy friends, talk to them a lot when he's around. It shows that people like you and want to be your friend. It will make him want to be your friend, too!
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    One of them said, “Oh, I've wanted to be your friend for a long time now. ... I you
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    Next step! Talk to him! You have probably talked a little before, but now you can really have a conversation. Wait till he is alone though. Not with a group of friends. So it can be an actual conversation and not just a hello in the halls. Say, your teacher gives you a little free time in class. On your way to "throw something away", say hey or something and ask him about something. Nothing personal. About school or what he did that weekend. Good friendships take time.
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    Gradually talk to him more. In a couple of days, if you know something about his personal life or an issue he has with somebody and your somewhat a bystander or involved in someway, bring it up. Ask him about what's going on, give him advice. It will let him know that he can trust you with his problems.
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    Try to say "friend" when referring to him. Introduce him to your other friends, "Hey guys, this is my friend..." and tell him all your friends' names. This subtly tells him that you aren't looking for a romantic relationship.


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  • Don't be to obvious, lay back and just go slow with him.
  • Don't keep pestering him every day. Start out like once a week. Don't get into it until he says hi first.
  • Get to know his friends. This helps you know him better.
  • It doesn't hurt to look good. Let him know that you're a cool person. A lot of guys are shallow, and they don't want to be caught with someone who their friends don't approve of. It's sad, but true.
  • Remember they are probably in the same position as you. If he talks to you a lot, it probably means he likes you.
  • Be honest, guys can detect lying easily.
  • For the first few steps, use each step one day each. For step 4, that can last as long as you like until your ready to ask him to hang out.
  • Subtlety is key. Do you ever watch girls that are just incredibly obvious? They laugh and hit their guys. Not cool at all.
  • Let him know that you him and your friends want to hang out. Like take them to a baseball game; boys love sports.
  • If you want to say hi to him, here are ways to do it subtly:
    • Compliment him. ex,"Nice project!"
    • Offer gum.
    • Ask him a stupid and common question."Did we need to do problems 1-4?"
    • Try to get the conversation so you end up with a common interest."Yeah. I was just watching soccer. Do you watch soccer?"
  • If a guy says he wants to talk about your relationship, that means that he wants to break up.


  • Don't call him everyday. An occasional call, but only if you have a reason. Good reasons would be calling about a homework assignment or asking for someones phone number. Don't tell them you only called for a phone number and vise versa.
  • Do not cling on to him.
  • Don't ever do a "just called because I was bored" call.

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